Top 5 things I learned in 2021

2021 was definetely a year for me . It felt longer and shorter at the same time . Here are the top 5 things I learned -

1.You move on . At last .

It doesn’t feel the same when you are in that phase . But probably some days , months or years later , I know I will move on . I will always find a reason to wake up in the morning .

2.Friends are not lifelong

Friends are people you connect randomly at some phase of life . And once your life shifts , your friendship dies . Nothing much is done to save it and eventually you become aquaintances . Reality hits home but I have seen this with everything I had in life .

3.You are capable

Capable of moving on , capable of smile and laugh and capable to start something new . You can do things which you yourself never thought could .

4.Mental Health is damn real

People still feels Mental Health is just a “phase” , wish someone could make them realise . It is more harmful than a physical injury which literally has thousands of methods for healing . There is no shortcut for healing the wiring in your brain .

5.Fantasies are unreal

Don’t be an emotional fool , don’t live in fantasies . Life hits hard when your fantasies feels far , and you walking a different path from what you desired . Live happily of what life throws at you .

BONUS !

6.Get ready for surprises

Life can be too good to be true and unfair at many ocassions . If you just can’t find the reason why for all things happen to you , leave them as it is and consider them lesson learnt .

In a nutshell , 2021 wasn’t too good for me , and which has hundreds of reasons . But I know , I can make 2022 better . At the end of this year , hope to have a different answer .